Marriage Self-Evaluation Test at Home for Husbands and Wives!

Marriage Self-Evaluation Test at Home for Husbands and Wives!
Problem Check List For Wives
Self-Evaluation Sheet For Wives
Problem Check List For Husbands
Self-Evaluation Sheet For Husbands

Print two copies of these 4 evaluations and answer both sets together, then compare results! Most answers are yes and no!

Problem Check List For Wives

Answer yes or no beside each question, then note the answers that apply to your marriage.

Is the Lord really first in your life?

Are nagging, bickering or picking general occurrences at your home?

Are you in subjection to your husband? Do you place him in the position of leadership?

Are you a happy person? Do you take life, generally, without complaint?

Are you a positive, affirming person?

Are you a forgiving person?

Do you often interrupt your husband when he is talking or telling a story?

Do you put your husband down in public? In private?

Do you have reasonable control of your weight?

Are you sexually responsive to your husband at least 95% of the time?

How do you handle problems and pressure? Do you remain indecisive or blame others when things go wrong?

Do you call your husband any ugly names? (Any name he does not like is ugly.)

Do you have any resentments against your husband (because he is "fat," "late," ill-mannered, uneducated, etc.)?

Is your house reasonably organized and clean?

How do you feel about housework? Do you do it willingly?

Are you too "fussy" about how the house looks?

Are you extravagant when it comes to spending money?

How is your credit? Are you inclined to buy things on impulse, then have trouble paying your bills?

What is your social life like? Do you find yourself spending most of your spare time with your family and friends and very little with your husband's family and friends?

Would you prefer to watch TV rather than talk with your husband?

Do you spend at least one-half of your leisure time together?

Do you ask which film or TV program he would like to see and then somehow you end up seeing the one you prefer?

Do you treat his mother (or yours) with disrespect?

Are in-laws allowed to interfere or set policies for yout family?

How is your sense of humor? Do you laugh easily--even at yourself?

Has your husband caught you in little lies which you have tried to wriggle out of?

When you are wrong, do you find it hard to admit?

Do your prime interests in life center around things more than people?

Have you thought about who you are and what you will be like in twenty-five years?


	Self-Evaluation Sheet For Wives Answer yes or no beside each question, then note the answers that apply to your marriage.

Is your husband a better man for marrying you?

Do you store up grudges or resentments?

Do you resent the submissive role God has selected for you?

Is your house generally attractive and in order?

Are you "more than pleasingly plump" when you stand on the bathroom scales?

Are you dressing as he would wish you to?

Do you dress "your" age?

Are you keeping up-to-date with his interests?

Can you carry your end of a good conversation on current world events?

What about church and Biblical conversation?

Do you have a daily time for Bible study and prayer?

Are you taking care of your body, "God's temple"?

Do you try to be creative in your approach to every-day problems?

Are you allowing God to effect change in your husband or do you consider that your task?

Do you serve meals that have some variety and attractiveness?

Are you childish? Want your own way? Pouting or making a fuss over trifles?

Are you fun and enjoyable to be around?

Do you have any bad habits your husband wants you to change?

Write the major one right here.
Write the exact date and time you are going to change.
What are you going to do if you "slip up'' (How are you going to get back on track?)


	Problem Checklist For Husbands Answer yes or no beside each question, then note the answers that apply to your marriage.

HUSBAND

Do you remain indecisive or blame others when things go wrong?

Do you believe women are inferior to men and cannot possibly make important decisions?

Do you call your wife ugly names? (Any name she does not like is ugly.)

Do you find it hard to say "I love you" (and mean it) every day?

Are nagging or bickering general occurrences in your home?

Do you have any resentments against your, wife or children (because she is "fat," "late," ill-mannered, uneducated, etc.)?

Do you kiss your wife every morning before leaving for work?

CHILDREN

Do children annoy you? Do you feel a father should have a lesser part in the rearing of children?

Are your children ill-mannered, beyond reason?

HOUSEWORK

Do you think housework is beneath your dignity?

Do you refuse to help around the house to any significant degree?

MONEY

Are you stingy when it comes to spending money on your wife, but somewhat liberal with yourself?

Is it hard or impossible for you to account for where most of your money goes each month?

How is your credit? Are you inclined to buy things on impulse, then have trouble paying your bills?,

SOCIAL

Do you find yourself spending most of your spare time with your family and friends and very little with your wife's?

LEISURE

Do you ask which film or TV program she would like to see and then somehow end up seeing the one you prefer?

Would you prefer to watch TV than talk with your wife?

AUTO

How do you handle the car when you are in a bad mood? Do you drive like crazy when you are "ticked off" (a real symptom of immaturity)?

RELATIVES

Do you treat her mother (or yours) with disrespect?

Are in-laws allowed to interfere or set policies for your family?

HUMOR

How is your sense of humor? Do you see something funny only at the expense of others?

CHARACTER

Has your wife caught you in little lies which you have tried to wriggle out of?

If you are wrong, do you find it hard to admit?

PURPOSE

Do your prime interests in life center around things more than people?

Do you make it a point to spend some time introspectively concerning your purpose in life: Who am I? Why am I here? Where will I be in 20 years?

SEX

Do you often kiss your wife on the lips and mean it without it leading to the bedroom?


	Self-Evaluation Sheet For Husbands Answer yes or no beside each question, then note the answers that apply to your marriage.

Do you lose your temper or explode when discussing differences?

Do you help with the children and last-minute house details when it is important to be on time?

Do you have a regular time for Bible study and prayer

Do you plan for your children to have some form of devotional regularly in the home?

Do you plan for your family to attend church regularly?

Is your wife a better woman for marrying you?

Are you assuming the leadership of your home or demanding it?

Are you taking good care of "God's temple'' (your body)?

Are you grossly overweight?

Do you stay "tuned in" to your wife? Do you really listen to her?

Are you childish and want your way, pouting and/or fussing over trifles?

Are you fun and enjoyable to be around?

Do you have bad habits your wife wants you to change?

Write the major one right here.
Write the exact date and time you are going to change.
What are you going to do if you "slip up'' (How are you going to get back on track?)

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